Do You Believe in Love at First Sight?

Love at first sight doesn’t really exists. You can’t really tell that you love the person in just a glimpse of an eye (for a few seconds). What you feel is not love, but rather you are only attracted (captivated, mesmerized or in elementary term crush) to that person. You just can’t love a person without knowing who she/he really is. Always remember that looks can be deceiving, what you can see on his/her appearance might be opposite from the inside (though it does not apply to all).

Some people still believe in love at first sight through their experiences. The first they saw their partner they already believe that she/he is the one (meant to be?) and happy together for a long time. Yes, we cannot deny your experienced. But the fact you are together for a long period of time you develop love to each other. And this will not happen in just a few seconds (what you call love at first sight). You just don’t have an idea the true meaning of love and how it can move mountains. If you love someone you are willing to sacrifice anything, even your own life (it does not mean you are willing commit suicide or willing to kill for love, that's a different story). Willing to risk everything in any circumstances that might happen. Can you do this when you just saw the person? Definitely not.

It really takes time before you can confirm that you really love a person. That’s the truth.

And if you are seeking for love, then you need to love yourself first. Because you can’t share your love with someone else if you don’t have it. Love yourself, share your love and they will also share their love back to you.

Quote for today: Looks can be deceiving.