When SHE Talks, HE Should Listen

A woman is a complex being. Men find them hard to understand at some point. But when you finally get to know her, you'll appreciate her even her worst side. This is why women are often misunderstood especially if the conversation leads into argument. Correct me if I'm wrong, but men would see them as a transformed wild men-eating mammal when its on the shouting and nagging phase of argument. Yes, it could be that women has that sort of ability to transform when at the heat of the conversation. So what should men do?Listen. Just listen.

Breakups happened when men don't know the art of listening to their women. They may sound like a broken record (and sometimes tend to play the motherly part in a relationship) but men should understand that it is their way of expressing their inner frustration. Women are expressive by nature unlike men. They tend to voice out what they feel even the slightest one like how a cute little puppy made her day or how that funny smell in the backyard ruined her day. That is why they are at there best if they had constant meet ups and chit chats with their girl friends. Talking with friends, family and partners is a feel good thing for them. Men on the other hand prefers to keep their frustration and other not so good emotions on their own. So if you've noticed that she is already raising her voice, don't panic. Just listen and of course understand what she's trying to point out. If you talk and shout simultaneously with her, she would definitely take it a notch higher just for her to be in control of the argument. And worst, you two could end up hurting each other.

           
Let her air it out. You'll know when she's done if she'd slow down or ask you if you're listening. Then answer her that you've listened carefully to her points and it's your time then to talk and be heard. With this, both of you can listen with each other's side of the story and analyze if what went wrong and how would you rectify it. It doesn't take a genius to know this. But it helps to remind yourself that the woman in front of you is not a talking beast but a lovely creature to be loved, respected and cared.

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