Top 5 Reasons of Breaking Up That You Need To Know

We cannot deny that even in our own relationship many people will influence our decisions. Your parents, friends, and the people around you talk about your relationship. Whether you are happy or not, they surely have some comments. And several relationships will lead to break ups because people talks about them (not deserving to each other).

Below are the top 5 reasons why relationship may come to an end.

5. Parents don’t like him/her

You might already heard about the arranged marriage. Where your parents decide to whom you will be married to. This is no longer noticeable in today’s generation, but it still do exist. For example, you are already in a relationships but since your parents don’t want the girl/boy you love, they will decide to whom you will be married. Some of the pure Chinese parents would really prefer to marry their sons/daughters to the same nationality. I know that Love can be developed, but you are exchanging your True Love (Pure Love) for what? For money? Popularity?

Tendency with this kind of relationship they might not live a happy family, or in the middle of their relationship they will also break up. Many have regrets and some are just satisfied. If you are in the same situation, I just hope that you are happy and satisfied.

4. Friends don’t like him/her

I have a friend who meet a nice girl in a company. He tried to know more about of this girl first before courting her. So they had spent more time with each other during weekends and during their free hours. Then the boy court the girl and was accepted. The time when they already confirmed their relationship with each other, some of the boy’s friends were against to their relationship. The boy just know the girl for several weeks of dating and don’t have much background of her past relationships. The girl is nice and seems to be perfect for him, but because of his friends advices they broke up. His friend tell him about her past relationships and all the bad things about her.

So what? I mean if you really love the girl the way you know her, then you should protect her side. Do not let your relationship dictate by your friends words. If you also value your friends voice, then maybe it is better to ask the girl’s background or past relationship first before courting her.

3. You've been hurt – Physically or Emotionally

In a relationship it is normal that you will be hurt emotionally sometimes (not many times, and of course not every day), but not to the point you’ve been hurt physically. If you are still boyfriend/girlfriend and you’ve been hurting each other physically, how much more when you will be getting married right? When you live the same house, same faces every day and night. So same physical activities every weekend? (It’s like living the world of boxers where you are the punching bag). The longer your relationship, the more physically it would be. While you are still in early stage of your relationship, you should stay away right now if you are being treat this way.

2. You've been cheated

This will happened to both side, but mostly the boys are prawn to cheat because they have a reason. Top 1 reason “I’m just a boy/guy/man”. Do you think this is an acceptable reason? It’s never been okay to cheat, but it is better if it would happened while you are still boyfriend/girlfriend because you still have more time to think. A lot of times you will forgive, but it is really hard to forget.

What’s so sad is, this mostly happened to married people. When you are already married there is no longer an acceptable excuse if you cheat. Because you already swear in front of the Church where God is listening to your words. “Take this ring as a sign of my love and fidelity”. Fidelity – your faithfulness and loyalty to your wife. A true man should not take back of his words.

1. You are no longer happy

This is the main cause of top 2 and 3 reasons of break ups. Man/Woman tend to cheat because they are no longer happy with their relationship. Man tend to physically hit her wife because he is not happy. (?) And all of this will lead to break ups and finding some else for happiness.

While some married couple will still stick together because of their responsibility. Others would still find some else, but continue to support their children. And worst is that you will leave behind without further notice that they've found some else. Any of these scenarios are not good for married couple. We can’t do anything about these but to pray for them, it is the reality of the relationship.

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